Rabbi Carl Astor

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When Can a Jewish Wedding Happen?

There are times when a Jewish wedding can happen and times when weddings cannot, either according to laws or customs.

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Marriage As Mitzvah

Jews see marriage as mitzvah based on biblical and rabbinic texts. Marriage is seen as important for spirituality and closeness with God.

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What is a Bar Mitzvah, Bat Mitzvah, B-Mitzvah?

The B-Mitzvah is a transitional moment when one becomes responsible to the mitzvot, Traditionally celebrated with an aliyah to the Torah.

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It is considered forbidden to fast on fast days if injurious to one’s health, for the sake of performing positive commandments.

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We give thanks to God every day for the gift of life, but recognize that we are mortal and that illness and death will come.

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Visiting the sick is counted as one of the mitzvot that is rewarded both in this world and also in the World to Come. 

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The period of mourning for one’s parents is a full twelve months, and serves a deeply therapeutic function for the mourner.

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death

Judaism does not recognize any gray area between life and death. Whenever possible, a dying person should not be left alone.

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Yahrzeit should be a day given over to remembering and honoring an individual for whom one once sat shivah and is learning to live without.

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Tombstone customs in Judaism stem from the religious obligation to mark a grave. This is traditionally done with tombstones or stone markers.

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